How to reach harmonies in relations with darling?
To reach harmonies in relations with darling it turns out not at all. To Someone at occurrence of the first difficulties to wave each other with the handle easier and easier and to erase all from memory, others in every possible way try «to fill in the new base» and to construct the house anew.
Anyway, the majority of pairs always passes the so-called period of “grinding in” when everyone insists on the correctness and does not want to concede, when someone should apologise for sins from antecedents.
Relations with darling in general are similar to a puzzle: bright slices of events or gather in a beautiful picture, or are not present, then the destiny gear moves in a direction already to other partner. But relations is completely not children’s game and what to do, to reach necessary harmony?
1. Do not wait that darling will bear responsibility for your happiness. Wonder, why you are unfortunate. Very often relations fall that one of partners blames another for the misfortune. Only you supervise the life, you should accept both good, and the bad parties of your partner. Remember that relations are under construction by a principle to “take-give”, and in steam everyone should satisfy these conditions.
2. Sometimes make concessions, without expecting it from darling. Respect another’s opinion, do not wait that he or it will agree with you at the slightest pretext.
3. Always tell truth. Many lie in rescue to save up feelings and emotions of the partner. The lie gives rise to an invisible precipice between you even if it never will come up outside. The trust is that sail which will help your ship to move with the necessary direction.
4. Farewell each other. The pardon will allow to release the past and to concentrate on the future. If you study on last errors and do not repeat them is it a good sign. It is the only thing to do to avoid disappointment or despair.
5. Respect desires of your partner. For example, if darling asks to leave him alone or feels requirement for personal space.
6. Do not expect too much from darling to avoid disappointments.
7. Smooth acute angles during quarrels – never discuss important points when both of you be on a platoon. Exhaust one by one, then talk about all easy.
8. Be able to recognise the errors and to apologise for a criminal conduct. Ask darling to give to you to a few time to realise the fault. Then sit down for a negotiating table and tell that were wrong. It will strengthen your relations and will make them more strongly.
9. Whenever possible spend all free time together. It is not important, how much you are occupied, always it is possible to find time for joint leisure. Will watch a film, descend in cafe or to friends. You will feel relationship which will become stronger in due course only.
10. Laugh together. The laughter prolongs life, and the joint laughter will make your life easy. Appreciate the partner with sense of humour.
11. Develop together in the intimate plan. Do not hesitate to discuss own imaginations and listen to imaginations of the partner, then will realise them.
12. Hang together, whatever happens. Make so that darling could tell to you all. It will mean achievement of full harmony.
Protect each other. Good luck!