To reach harmonies in relations with darling it turns out not at all. To Someone at occurrence of the first difficulties to wave each other with the handle easier and easier and to erase all from memory, others in every possible way try «to fill in the new base» and to construct the house anew.
Anyway, the majority of pairs always passes the so-called period of “grinding in” when everyone insists on the correctness and does not want to concede, when someone should apologise for sins from antecedents.
Relations with darling in general are similar to a puzzle: bright slices of events or gather in a beautiful picture, or are not present, then the destiny gear moves in a direction already to other partner. But relations is completely not children’s game and what to do, to reach necessary harmony?
1. Do not wait that darling will bear responsibility for your happiness. Wonder, why you are unfortunate. Very often relations fall that one of partners blames another for the misfortune. Only you supervise the life, you should accept both good, and the bad parties of your partner. Remember that relations are under construction by a principle to “take-give”, and in steam everyone should satisfy these conditions. Continue reading
“Mummy, do not turn off the light, to me it is terrible, and so finds itself out of fear of darkness, primitive horror for possibility to pass coming nearer removal, to bring under the blow I will melt and to disappear most under sharp canines of an insatiable wild animal.
The author of the publication: Svetlana ANDREEVA, the psychologist.
All palette of feelings endured throughout our life directly depends on how much we have managed to develop and bring up in ourselves wanted them to test whether we have learnt to adapt them under requirements of a surrounding landscape, and whether there were they are comprehensible in that social environment to which we would like itself to carry. The library about love will throw light on the most secret feeling which the person is capable to test.
Whether the psychology of relations defines somehow feeling of love? Feeling of love – it’s not the one-dimensional phenomenon, and it does not arise in itself, does not develop in itself. Continue reading