The list which can rescue your family
I held on like grim death. But day when my forces have run low and as soon as the husband has left for work has come, I have collected things, took our 14-month’s son and have left the house. That year was the only thing when we lived in one city with my parents. Obviously, possibility to escape to the father and mum has simplified my decision to leave Bill …
Tear-stained and annoyed, I have left with mum on kitchen. It held the child, and I, sobbing, justified the act. Mum has poured to me coffee and has told that they with the father will help me. I have with relief sighed, having learnt that they for me.
– But before you will leave Bill, you should make something. – mum has told.
She has put my sleeping son, took a sheet of paper and the handle and has drawn a vertical line on the centre of the sheet. In the left column she has asked me to write everything that Bill because of what to live with it has made it became impossible. Having looked at dividing line, I have assumed that on the right mum will ask to write Bill’s all high qualities. Continue reading
What can we make quite independently, not otkladyja in a distant box?
First of all it is necessary to be convinced that for you it really is very important to strengthen relations with the partner.
Then before something to tell, make, or plan it is possible to wonder: “whether what I want to make, tell now to improvement of my relations Will help? ”
And to strengthen effect, having wondered: “What can I make now to improve the relations with the favourite person to me? ”
Now we do, that have planned. The main thing to understand inside that all of you do it for the sake of your relations.
It is thus very important to support itself in these actions, to rejoice successes to even the small.
Today the statement «they lived long and happily.» And to that similar statements frequently and remain on a paper, to be exact, in children’s fairy tales. In life all occurs differently. Practically in any relations meet both small household quarrels, and the large conflicts leading to rupture. And if with the first all is understood, what to do with serious conflicts? When the love boat goes to pieces how to save relations from the favourite?
Rules of strong relations
Responsibility always lies for two.
Remember it when once again will is proud to keep silent, considering what to be sorry at woman is an unworthy act for the man. Do not wait also that the girl will solve all for you. Remember to save relations on concessions there should be both, and at all someone one.
Straightforwardness quite good line for maintenance of good relations. If in relations suddenly something has gone not so, that a certain way to dot one’s “i’s” and cross one’s “t’s” is to ask the partner directly that does not suit it. Very often girls like to talk hints including to show the discontent. The history knows many pairs which broke up because the girl was expressed “foggy”, and the man of such hints did not understand. Continue reading