To reach harmonies in relations with darling it turns out not at all. To Someone at occurrence of the first difficulties to wave each other with the handle easier and easier and to erase all from memory, others in every possible way try «to fill in the new base» and to construct the house anew.
Anyway, the majority of pairs always passes the so-called period of “grinding in” when everyone insists on the correctness and does not want to concede, when someone should apologise for sins from antecedents.
Relations with darling in general are similar to a puzzle: bright slices of events or gather in a beautiful picture, or are not present, then the destiny gear moves in a direction already to other partner. But relations is completely not children’s game and what to do, to reach necessary harmony?
1. Do not wait that darling will bear responsibility for your happiness. Wonder, why you are unfortunate. Very often relations fall that one of partners blames another for the misfortune. Only you supervise the life, you should accept both good, and the bad parties of your partner. Remember that relations are under construction by a principle to “take-give”, and in steam everyone should satisfy these conditions. Continue reading